
My friend Cheryl--best friend from college-- arrives in 2 weeks. Haven't seen her in years. We'll go ice skating. Gallery wandering. Coffee drinking. She arrives 3 day's before my 43rd birthday and the novelty of her presence is a present. It's harder to make friends the older I get. (It's not just a matter of being a hermit---but the pool seems to have narrowed dramatically.) Solution? Try harder? Be a friend? Be open to new experiences? (Gasp!) I have one friend who claims it's all about lowering one's expectations. He makes a far better Buddhist than I do. We'll see. Reflecting on metal. Reflecting on friendship. It's not flame that makes soldier flow. It's the heat of the metal surrounding it. What makes friendship flow?
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